For those who don’t know, Couples Massage is another name for side-by-side massage. The massage recipients need not even be a couple. They could be two friends, team-mates, siblings, a parent and child, anyone, really. It’s an easy way to get acquainted with therapeutic massage.
We live in a no-touch culture, sadly. This has devastating effects on us all. Why is this the case? Possible because touch and affection are associated with sexuality. We don’t understand that physical closeness is essential, whereas people in most other cultures, do.
So, when you are planning your first massage, it’s a good idea to schedule a couples massage. Because someone you know and trust is in the room, right beside you, it’s just that much easier. Doing things alone is tough. When someone is along for the ride, it’s not an issue, really.
How it works is like this: Two people get massaged at once by two therapists. That’s it. The therapists come to your house, if it’s an in-home session. They set up portable massage tables. You and your massage partner disrobe to your level of comfort while the LMTs go in the bathroom to wash their hands. You get under a sheet. That’s it. Simple.
Of course, you never have to get undressed in front of anyone! And, only the part of the body is exposed. That’s what massage therapists refer to as “draping.” It means that you can feel alright if you’re shy or uncomfortable in front of others.
The therapists use oil during a couples massage, like most other massages. Of course, if you opt for no oil, that works, too. Just let the LMT know what you prefer before the session starts. Or, if the oil feels weird, inform them, and request that the remainder of the session be performed without oil. No problem.
Couples massages are for anyone, as stated above. But when in a romantic relationship, it’s a great way to spend time with your loved one. People do so many things together, but most forget to spend time together de-stressing and relaxing, except maybe on vacation. Take the time to schedule a couples massage if you haven’t ever gone for a massage before. It’s a great way to learn about massage, and a fun experience shared with someone close to you, as well.
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